Steps to better leadership skills
Throughout my career and in various leadership roles, I have gradually developed my own leadership skills. I have tried and failed, reflected and learned, borrowed, collected and internalized a number of rules and practices that help me in my leadership role.
1. You have to want it, dare it and be able to do it
We have all become leaders for different reasons, and sometimes we need to be pushed, and push ourselves a little, to move forward. Very often, it's the last point - toughing it out - that becomes crucial to success. We must persevere and weather the storm in order to achieve our goals in a good way. As leaders, we have to see this through, even if we don't always agree on strategic priorities. Being aware of our own role and the fact that we represent something bigger than ourselves are good leadership qualities. As a manager at Storebrand, I represent Storebrand.
2. From sunflower to gardener
As a manager, you're no longer the one who has to be in the sun, now you have to create the conditions for your people to shine. In a way, you are the gardener who makes sure the garden grows and flourishes. The goal is for the team to be able to deliver together without you as the leader controlling everything. Mastery, trust and clear expectations work together to create a breeding ground for the team to deliver good results.
3. Get the fish on the counter
Expectations are important to be clear, not necessarily in detail on deliverables, but in terms of what you expect in terms of quality and dialog. This also includes what your team expects from you as a manager. "The fish must be on the counter", as Anita Krohn Traaseth put it so nicely in an interview. If something goes wrong, it's always best to address it early, before the "fish" starts to "smell". Things rarely just sort themselves out.
4. Without food and drink...
Balance in life is important for performance at work. As managers, we should of course not interfere in people's private lives, but it's important to be aware of the balance. We don't operate an assembly line production, but have skilled employees who need to perform and deliver over time, and perhaps perform a little extra every now and then. So it's important to have a regular replenishment of energy. I use deadlines as a conscious tool to speed up the work, but the balance must be manageable and motivating.
5. Offer yourself and be available
I've found that it's easier to create good relationships if you, as a manager, offer a bit of yourself. If people lower their shoulders, understand each other and can laugh together, they often deliver better. My principle is that even if the day is full, I always have two minutes available. It's more difficult now that so much happens digitally, but it's all the more important to do it. I also have to remind myself that I have two ears and one mouth. One of several good leadership skills is listening. Active listening often leads to people solving challenges themselves, which has a far greater effect than if you come up with the solution. This is also linked to treating others the way you want them to treat you. If you manage to do this, it always gives the best results. It's not easy, and the role can be both difficult and lonely at times, but remember to make use of everyone you have around you. There is always someone you can spar with.
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Good leadership skills deliver results
At the end of the day, it's important to always be clear about the goals you want to achieve. It doesn't matter how good a leader you are if the results don't materialize.
Fortunately, there is usually a link between well-functioning teams, good leadership and good results - and there are few things more fun than setting ambitious goals and achieving them together.